Awkwardly Introverted

There’s something deeply satisfying about finally getting to unwind after a long day of navigating the world. 🌍 The noise, the expectations, the small talk—it all melts away when I can just exist in my own space. No forced conversations, no draining social obligations. Just me, my comfort, and the simple things that make life feel a little easier. A comfy spot on the couch 🛋️, a good book 📚 (or let’s be honest, scrolling endlessly through my TBR list, debating what to start next 🤦🏾‍♀️), maybe a drink in hand 🍷, and the knowledge that I don’t have to be  on  anymore. That’s happiness. That’s peace. ✨ For an introvert, moments like these aren’t just nice—they’re necessary. They’re the quiet recalibration after spending too much energy on the outside world. It’s not loneliness, it’s solitude, and there’s a huge difference. Some people recharge by being around others. Me? I recharge by sinking into my own little world, where the only voices I have to hear are the ones in my ...

So, as an introvert, the world honestly feels like it’s constantly on fast-forward, with way too much noise and way too many people trying to talk to me all at once. Like, can we just slow down for a second? 🤯 This quote—"Introverts just need their world quieter and less crowded"—hit me right in the feels because, yeah, same. It perfectly sums up what it means to recharge and function like a normal human without feeling like my social battery is permanently dead. 🔋💤 Being an introvert isn’t about hating people (seriously, I don’t hate people... most of the time 🙃). It’s more about trying to find some sort of balance so I don’t completely short-circuit. Crowds and chaos? Not my thing. At all. They’re energy vampires 🧛🏾‍♀️, and before I know it, I’m desperate for some alone time to just think and exist without anyone trying to interact with me. Quiet spaces are like magic ✨—they let me breathe, focus, and maybe even find a little creativity without all the noise of the ou...

Today, New Jersey is blanketed in a winter wonderland. The snow is sticking, and it’s expected to continue into tomorrow, with predictions of up to 10 inches. It’s exactly the kind of picturesque snowfall I wanted for Christmas—but didn’t get. Now, sitting here in my cozy room, munching on chips and pretzels, and watching old episodes of Haunted History on YouTube, it’s hard not to feel like the world outside is magical... even if everything inside this country feels far from it. 🛋️🍿📺 The snowstorm prompted Governor Murphy to issue a state of emergency. While the roads are messy, and I’m grateful to be indoors, I couldn’t help but hope that this storm would complicate certain travel plans—particularly for those heading to Washington for tomorrow's indoor swearing-in ceremony. The thought of fewer people attending what feels like an embarrassing political spectacle brings a small smile to my face. ❄️🚧👀 Instead of dwelling on that circus, I’m choosing to focus on something much ...